Code of Ethics
At Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, we believe that the matchmaking industry—particularly within the non-monogamous space—requires a higher standard of care. We are dealing with people's hearts, reputations, and private lives.
This Code of Ethics is not just a legal disclaimer; it is the moral compass that guides every interaction, search, and introduction we facilitate.
Luxury as a Standard of Care
We define luxury not by price, but by the quality of attention we pay to you. True luxury is the absence of friction. It is the peace of mind that comes from knowing every detail is handled with precision, discretion, and deep respect for your time.
Absolute Confidentiality
We operate with the discretion of a private bank or legal firm. Your participation, data, and relationship status are held in strict confidence. We never share your profile without your explicit consent for a specific introduction.
Radical Honesty
We do not sell false hope. We provide candid, constructive feedback regarding your expectations and search parameters. If we do not believe we can serve you effectively, we will decline your retainer rather than waste your time.
Safety & Verification
We prioritize the physical and emotional safety of our community. Every member undergoes identity verification and a behavioral interview. We have a zero-tolerance policy for harassment, predatory behavior, or misrepresentation.
Enthusiastic Consent
We champion a culture of affirmative, enthusiastic consent. We educate our clients on boundary setting and respecting the autonomy of others. Any violation of consent protocols results in immediate expulsion from the registry.
Transparency in Pricing
No hidden fees. No predatory contracts. Our fee structure is transparent, and we clearly delineate what is guaranteed (e.g., number of introductions) versus what is aspirational (e.g., chemistry).
Inclusivity & Non-Judgment
We honor all ethical relationship structures. Whether you practice hierarchical polyamory, relationship anarchy, or swinging, you will be treated with dignity. We vet for open-mindedness to ensure our community is free from stigma.
Our Promise to You
"We recognize that entering a matchmaking process requires immense vulnerability. We promise to handle your story with care, to represent you authentically, and to advocate for your best interests at every turn. We are not just finding you a date; we are curating your community."
Victoria & Ryan
Founders
Time is the ultimate luxury.